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The Spending Plan (Budget)

1. What is the spending plan?

Your spending plan is essentially your budget. By using a more positive name, you can escape the feeling of restriction that often accompanies the term budget.


Your spending plan is a tool to help you achieve financial goals that otherwise might seem impossible to reach.

It is a way to take charge of your spending on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis so that you can channel your income to achieve your goals.


A spending plan is also a way to keep money from slipping away unnoticed, allowing you to take charge of decisions such as what to buy, when to buy it, and why.

2. How do you create a spending plan?

The first step is to set your budget goals , both short and long term.

Goals give you something to look forward to and help you identify what you would eventually like to accomplish with your spending plan.

In addition to identifying your financial goals, you need to estimate their cost, factoring in the rate of inflation for long-term goals.

This allows you to determine how much must be set aside each month and helps you prioritize your goals .

Changes in your income, health, the economy, your family size, and dozens of other variables can affect your plan and force you to sacrifice some of your goals.

By prioritizing your goals, you will be prepared to make crucial decisions about what goals to abandon if necessary.

3. How do you develop a spending plan?

To develop a spending plan , you must first become aware of your monthly expenditures and income.

A spending diary, whether computerized or handwritten, will help you to identify your spending patterns and eliminate unnecessary expenditures.


Your expenditures analysis should include out-of-pattern expenses (expenses that are not incurred every month, such as annual insurance premiums, automobile registration fees, subscription renewals, and holiday expenditures).

Unless you derive income from various and unpredictable sources, your income analysis should be easier. Include your current salary or use estimates based on the past two years.

Once you know how much money you have coming in and where it is going, you can determine what percentage of your gross income goes to each category of expenditures (e.g., housing, taxes, transportation, food, clothing, entertainment).


If you have selected goals, such as paying off credit card balances or saving for retirement, then you can try to squeeze money out of one or more of your spending categories to fund the goal.

By keeping your plan flexible and periodically reevaluating your progress, you can take control of your financial situation.

4. How do you implement and monitor the plan?

Once your goals have been identified and your spending plan developed, all you need to do is implement the plan and monitor your progress .

To make the process easier, you should include the whole family in the effort, commence the plan at a good time (not just before the holidays or vacation), keep the monitoring process simple, and be flexible.

Discipline is necessary, but don’t be too hard on yourself or you may become frustrated and abandon the whole effort.

Be willing to make adjustments as you go along. You can monitor your plan using modern computer software or old-fashioned paper and pencil.

5. How do you cut costs if you are spending too much?

► If you are spending too much , there are several ways to cut back. One approach is to work on changing your spending habits.

Suppose you are spending too much money on particular items (such as clothing) or spending more money at certain times of the month (near payday).

By being aware of those habits, you can make appropriate changes. You may also try shopping smarter and reducing restaurant and/or entertainment expenses.

► Another option is to downsize to a less expensive car or home to reduce spending.

You may also reduce spending by reducing the cost of your debt . One way is to consolidate or refinance high-interest loans.

As mentioned, you shouldn’t be too hard on yourself, but make a few changes. In time, you may be able to bring your spending under control.

6. How do you increase your cash flow?

To maintain your spending plan, you must always have sufficient cash flow. There are a number of ways to increase your cash flow if you need to.

You might ask for a raise, take a higher-paying job, take a second job, or turn a hobby into a business.

You can sell or liquidate assets and eliminate expenses. You can also borrow your way through a cash flow crisis, provided you can afford the additional loan payments when they come due.

7. Can you afford to have one spouse stay at home?

If you are developing your spending plan to determine whether a spouse can remain at home , then you have additional factors to consider.

You should examine the short-term impact that losing an income will have on you and your family (immediate loss of cash flow) as well as the long-term impact (only one income contributing to the retirement fund, for example).

Remember that when one spouse stays home, you may actually reduce some spending categories, such as child-care costs and commuting costs.

It is always good to do a second income analysis to determine the after-tax benefits of having both spouses working, and be prepared to accept lifestyle changes if you decide to have one spouse stay home.

Implementing and Monitoring Your Spending Plan

8. How do you implement your spending plan?

Once you have identified your budget goals and created a spending plan to meet them, you are ready to put your plan into action.Before you begin, though, here are some tips to avoid common mistakes.

  • Involve the entire family. Implementing and monitoring your budget plan requires commitment as well as discipline from the entire family. Make sure that they are all in agreement and understand your plan. The better you all work as a team, the greater the chances for success.
  • Remember that discipline does it. As with a diet, to get long-term benefits, your budget should become a way of life. Jot down all the expenses, item by item, day by day, in your diary. If you are using your computer, make sure you enter all the expenses at the end of the day or at the end of the week. Don’t wait until the end of the month because, by then, you will have so many entries that you are likely to give up.
  • Timing is everything. Start at a time when it is easy for you to follow and stay with a plan. For example, do not start a new budget just before holidays or your anniversary. Start at the beginning of the month, or, if possible, the beginning of the year.
  • Easier is better. Keep monitoring simple. Divide your expenses into fixed, variable, and discretionary categories. Monitor your variable and discretionary expenses, such as clothing money or eating out, once you have assigned your fixed expenses.
  • Use different credit cards. Track different categories by using different credit cards. Dedicate one credit card for groceries so that you don’t need to write down your expenses every time you buy any groceries. Instead, your credit card statements will itemize your grocery expenses for you. Use an oil company card when you fill up your car’s gas tank.

Caution: If you’re going to use multiple credit cards to help track your expenses, make sure that you aren’t paying high annual fees for each of these cards.

Caution: Be careful not to fall into the trap of using credit to pay for everyday expenses and not paying off your outstanding balance each month. If you do this, it will seem like you are spending less, but your debt will continue to increase.

  • Find a system that works for you. Whatever works for you is good so develop a system that meets your lifestyle.
  • Fine tune as you go. Keep in mind that implementing a spending plan requires fine tuning of your estimates and your expenses as you go along. You will get better as time progresses. Don’t give up too quickly if you feel it is not working.

9. How do you track your progress?

  • Using a personal computer to monitor your spending plan–If you are using your personal computer and a money management program to monitor your spending plan, make sure that you feel comfortable using both before you start your plan. Enter all your data in the program and make sure that you assign proper categories for each expense.

Make sure that you enter the amount that you have allowed to be spent under each category and keep a record of each expense as you go along.

The benefit of using a computer is that it will track all the categories automatically. It can give you a report if you are overspending or underspending in each category.

  • Manual monitoring of your spending plan–If you prefer to monitor your spending plan on a piece of paper, you can do that too. Just record every expense that you incur, just as you were doing while keeping your spending diary. It is crucial that you enter every expense according to the category.

Keep a running total of each category as you go. For instance, if your spending plan is monthly, total each category every week to get a clear picture of how you should adjust your expenses.

If you create a system that is easy to follow, you are more likely to
stay with it for a longer period of time.

As you gain more experience monitoring your spending plan, you will almost surely develop methods to make it simpler.

After a few months, you may choose to lump some categories together because you realize that you are able to estimate expenditures more easily.

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[Motivation Monday] Feeling Stuck? Read This!

Being stuck (whether it’s in a dreadful routine, a toxic relationship, or unhealthy habits) manifests differently for everyone, but it doesn’t go unnoticed. Slowly but surely, you start feeling bored, anxious, frustrated, and even empty among many other equally unpleasant feelings. In other words, if you’re stuck, you know it… even if you can’t bring yourself to admit it out loud.

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You need to free yourself from that feeling, because the longer you stay caught in that web, the harder it’ll be to get out of it.

Feeling stuck often happens when you either don’t have a clue about what to do with your life, or when you know exactly what you want, but you don’t quite know how to make it happen. These may seem like opposite reasons, but actually, they both come from the same place: fear and insecurity.

When you start listening to fear’s little voice inside your head that only reminds you of your failures and flaws, it starts taking over. Turn its volume down and do everything you can to ignore it.

Fear and other feelings of inadequacy have a purpose; they try to protect us from outside danger. It’s completely normal to have those feelings… but you’ve got to know when to listen and when to move on. Don’t let fear and insecurity keep you stuck.

Of course, all of this is much easier said than done. Here are five steps you can take to build yourself up and get unstuck.

1. Change your perception.

Honestly, you might not even be as stuck as you think you are. Things can get us down, but at the end of the day, we have to remind ourselves how lucky we are and how much we have. Dedicate some time every day to this activity.

You can start right now. Go ahead and count your blessings. Start by being grateful for everything we usually take for granted: being alive, having a roof over of our heads and a bed to sleep on. Then, move on to other things like having people who care about you. List everything you can think of and that you are genuinely grateful for.

Gratitude is a proven way to make you feel relaxed. It changes your perception by making you focus on what you have instead of what you don’t.

2. Take care of your personal and financial well-being.

Once you’re stuck, it becomes awfully easy to lose yourself because you don’t have enough energy or motivation. Don’t let this happen. You deserve to take care of yourself.

Make sure you sleep and eat properly and never self-medicate. Taking care of your well-being is a sign of self-love and confidence. Don’t neglect your body and mind. You owe it to yourself.

Evaluate your financial well-being as well. All sorts of other problems stem from financial issues, so it’s very important that you know how to be financially fit. This will really give you some much-needed peace of mind.

If you don’t already know, learn how savings and investment accounts work and get yourself acquainted with some basic economics. Take care of yourself in all areas. You’ll be thankful for it.

3. Do something productive… now.

Start with something small like going for a walk, cleaning up, or simply getting out of your pajamas and putting on your favorite outfit. Don’t wait for a special occasion… after all, what could be more special than taking care of yourself?

Once you’ve done a seemingly small but productive task, do something you enjoy but that also challenges you. Get that recipe right, call that old high school friend just to catch up, paint, draw, color, make a donation to a charity of your choice, create a blog… there are endless possibilities.

Being productive takes your mind away from fear and speculation, and at the same time, it helps you to get things done. Start with something small (or big, if you’d like) but please start now.

No excuses allowed.

4. Practice some introspection.

Everything happens for a reason. Why are you feeling this way? What is it that you’re really craving?

Introspection doesn’t have to be hard if you do it your way, and it’ll help you get to the root of your problems. Do anything that resonates with you and allows you to get to know your inner thoughts and feelings. Maybe it’s chanting some mantras, practicing yoga, or having an “enjoy the silence” moment in the middle of your day. It’s up to you.

Give yourself the time to practice some introspection so that you’re able to hear the other “voices” within you, and not just the mean, fearful one.

Whatever it is that gets you in that soul-searching mood, make sure to challenge yourself and try to see the same issue from several points of view. When you’re stuck, it’s extremely hard to look at things from different perspectives. Challenge yourself and realize that neither your actions nor your thoughts have to be black and white. There are always more options.

5. Stop comparing yourself to others.

Comparing yourself to others will leave you feeling exhausted. If you’re constantly thinking about what others do and measure your own triumphs in comparison to theirs, you’re going to remain stuck.

Why? By picturing others happily achieving their goals and becoming successful, you’re chasing an unattainable idea of perfection. Do not confuse someone’s social media profile or magazine cover pictures with their entire lives. There’s no such thing as perfection, and we all make mistakes.

When you stop comparing yourself to others, you’ll feel free to live your own life and follow your path at the pace you’re supposed to.

If taking a peek into someone else’s life inspires you, then by all means, go ahead and use it to motivate you. But otherwise, avoid the all-too-common comparison game. It’s not easy, but it is necessary for your happiness.

It is possible to get unstuck. Follow these steps and make the wise decision to believe that you can improve your life.

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[Financial Friday] Important Changes to Social Security Claiming Strategies

The Bipartisan Budget Act of 2015 included a section titled “Closure of Unintended Loopholes” that ends two Social Security claiming strategies that have become increasingly popular over the last several years. These two strategies, known as “file and suspend” and “restricted application” for a spousal benefit, have often been used to optimize Social Security income for married couples.

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If you have not yet filed for Social Security, it’s important to understand how these new rules could affect your retirement strategy. Depending on your age, you may still be able to take advantage of the expiring claiming options. The changes should not affect current Social Security beneficiaries and do not apply to survivor benefits.

File and suspend

Under the previous rules, an individual who had reached full retirement age could file for retired worker benefits–typically to enable a spouse to file for spousal benefits–and then suspend his or her benefit. By doing so, the individual would earn delayed retirement credits (up to 8% annually) and claim a higher worker benefit at a later date, up to age 70. Meanwhile, his or her spouse could be receiving spousal benefits. For some married couples, especially those with dual incomes, this strategy increased their total combined lifetime benefits.

Under the new rules, which are effective as of April 30, 2016, a worker who reaches full retirement age can still file and suspend, but no one can collect benefits on the worker’s earnings record during the suspension period. This strategy effectively ends the file-and-suspend strategy for couples and families.

The new rules also mean that a worker cannot later request a retroactive lump-sum payment for the entire period during which benefits were

suspended. (This previously available claiming option was helpful to someone who faced a change of circumstances, such as a serious illness.)

Tip: If you are age 66 or older before the new rules take effect, you may still be able to take advantage of the combined file-and-suspend and spousal/dependent filing strategy.

Restricted application

Under the previous rules, a married person who had reached full retirement age could file a “restricted application” for spousal benefits after the other spouse had filed for Social Security worker benefits. This allowed the individual to collect spousal benefits while earning delayed retirement credits on his or her own work record. In combination with the file-and-suspend option, this enabled both spouses to earn delayed retirement credits while one spouse received a spousal benefit, a type of “double dipping” that was not intended by the original legislation.

Under the new rules, an individual eligible for both a spousal benefit and a worker benefit will be “deemed” to be filing for whichever benefit is higher and will not be able to change from one to the other later.

Tip: If you reached age 62 before the end of December 2015, you are grandfathered under the old rules. If your spouse has filed for Social Security worker benefits, you can still file a restricted application for spouse-only benefits at full retirement age and claim your own worker benefit at a later date.

Basic Social Security claiming options remain unchanged. You can file for a permanently reduced benefit starting at age 62, receive your full benefit at full retirement age, or postpone filing for benefits and earn delayed retirement credits, up to age 70.

Although some claiming options are going away, plenty of planning opportunities remain, and you may benefit from taking the time to make an informed decision about when to file for Social Security.

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Merging Your Money When You Marry

Getting married is exciting, but it brings many challenges. One such challenge that you and your spouse will have to face is how to merge your finances.

Planning carefully and communicating clearly are important, because the financial decisions that you make now can have a lasting impact on your future.

1. Discuss your financial goals

The first step in mapping out your financial future together is to discuss your financial goals.

Start by making a list of your short-term goals (e.g., paying off wedding debt, new car, vacation) and long-term goals (e.g., having children, your children’s college education, retirement).

Then, determine which goals are most important to you. Once you’ve identified the goals that are a priority, you can focus your energy on achieving them.

2. Prepare a budget

Next, you should prepare a budget that lists all of your income and expenses over a certain time period (e.g., monthly, annually).

You can designate one spouse to be in charge of managing the budget, or you can take turns keeping records and paying the bills. If both you and your spouse are going to be involved, make sure that you develop a record-keeping system that both of you understand.


And remember to keep your records in a joint filing system so that both of you can easily locate important documents. Begin by listing your sources of income (e.g., salaries and wages, interest, dividends).


Then, list your expenses (it may be helpful to review several months of entries in your checkbook and credit card bills). Add them up and compare the two totals. Hopefully, you get a positive number, meaning that you spend less than you earn.

If not, review your expenses and see where you can cut down on your spending.

3. Bank accounts–separate or joint?

At some point, you and your spouse will have to decide whether to combine your bank accounts or keep them separate.

Maintaining a joint account does have advantages, such as easier record keeping and lower maintenance fees. However, it’s sometimes more difficult to keep track of how much money is in a joint account when two individuals have access to it.

Of course, you could avoid this problem by making sure that you tell each other every time you write a check or withdraw funds from the account. Or, you could always decide to maintain separate accounts.

4. Credit cards

If you’re thinking about adding your name to your spouse’s credit card accounts, think again. When you and your spouse have joint credit, both of you will become responsible for 100 percent of the credit card debt.

In addition, if one of you has poor credit, it will negatively impact the credit rating of the other. If you or your spouse does not qualify for a card because of poor credit, and you are willing to give your spouse account privileges anyway, you can make your spouse an authorized user of your credit card.

An authorized user is not a joint cardholder and is therefore not liable for any amounts charged to the account. Also, the account activity won’t show up on the authorized user’s credit record. But remember, you remain responsible for the account.

5. Insurance

If you and your spouse have separate health insurance coverage, you’ll want to do a cost/benefit analysis of each plan to see if you should continue to keep your health coverage separate.


For example, if your spouse’s health plan has a higher deductible and/or co-payments or fewer benefits than those offered by your plan, he or she may want to join your health plan instead.


You’ll also want to compare the rate for one family plan against the cost of two single plans.

It’s a good idea to examine your auto insurance coverage, too. If you and your spouse own separate cars, you may have different auto insurance carriers.

Consider pooling your auto insurance policies with one company; many insurance companies will give you a discount if you insure more than one car with them.

If one of you has a poor driving record, however, make sure that changing companies won’t mean paying a higher premium.

6. Employer-sponsored retirement plans

If both you and your spouse participate in an employer-sponsored retirement plan, you should be aware of each plan’s characteristics.


Review each plan together carefully and determine which plan provides the best benefits. If you can afford it, you should each participate to the maximum in your own plan.


If your current cash flow is limited, you can make one plan the focus of your retirement strategy. Here are some helpful tips:

►If both plans match contributions, determine which plan offers the best match and take full advantage of it

►Compare the vesting schedules for the employer’s matching contributions

►Compare the investment options offered by each plan–the more options you have, the more likely you are to find an investment mix that suits your needs

►Find out whether the plans offer loans–if you plan to use any of your contributions for certain expenses (e.g., your children’s college education, a down payment on a house), you may want to participate in the plan that has a loan provision

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[Motivation Monday] How to Make Your Goals Happen

We all have hopes, dreams, and goals. We imagine how great it would be to make them all real, but the hard truth is that without actually planning and taking action, our goals will stay daydreams.

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However, there are thousands of women who are indeed capable of setting goals and achieving them. So, why should it be any different in your case?

Here’s another truth: you can turn your wishes into reality by action planning. Very few people make it because “they’re just lucky.” Most of the time, great amounts of creativity, perseverance, self-discipline, and positivity are involved in achieving satisfying lives. Having an action plan to follow allows you to focus on your goals and stay on the right track.

So, let’s get right down to it and see what you can do to make your goals happen.

Get real.

Yes, you are capable of designing and redesigning your life as you wish. Feel free to set your goals as high as you want to, but make sure to be realistic when you plan how to achieve them.

Let’s use one of the most common goals as an example: improving your financial status. Making a helpful action plan doesn’t involve simply declaring you want to be financially savvy or writing it down. Sure, those are important baby steps that can help you get clear about what you want and serve as reminders to go get it, but by no means is that a proper action plan.

What you should do:
Break down your main goal into several attainable little goals.

Planning to “improve financial status” is ambiguous, and it may take a long time. If you break it down into smaller goals such as “keep track of my spending habits,” “check my bank account balance once a week,” and “look for savings accounts,” it will help you stay on the right track and keep you motivated because you’ll see yourself taking action sooner.

Planning realistic mini-goals will also help you see that—no matter what your goal is—you can make it happen.

Prioritize.

Most of us don’t just have one goal, but many. Trying to achieve all our goals at the same time while carrying on with our everyday activities can turn out to be very overwhelming.

That’s where prioritization comes in. Getting into the “first things first” state of mind is extremely important.

Time is the most valuable resource you’ve got, so reflect on how you spend it and evaluate if you’re making wise choices.

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What you should do:
Focus on what’s really important.

What’s really important to you? Do that first.

Otherwise, you’ll find yourself busy attending to common, everyday stuff (checking e-mail, binge-watching TV, common chores) and by the end of the day, you won’t have spent enough time on what really matters. Once you set your priorities straight, action planning won’t seem so difficult.

Plan from A to Z.

No matter how much positive thinking we practice and how much we plan ahead, sometimes things just don’t turn out the way we want. Most people tend to have a Plan B, in case things don’t work out perfectly, though not so many have a plan Z. That is, having a contingency plan for the absolute worst-case scenario. This may sound counterintuitive, but when you actually think and plan your way out of an undesirable outcome, you can reduce your stress levels.

What you should do:
Take a deep breath and start visualizing what can go wrong with Plan A.

After that, consider your options and have different, concise action plans. In all honesty, doing this can be a bit unpleasant, but once you’re finished, you’ll be prepared for whatever may come. Planning from A to Z will make you feel like you’ve got things together.

Review your progress.

Once you’ve set your heart and mind on a goal, it’s relatively easy to feel motivated and take action.

Let’s say you’ve been saving up some money because that’s your goal. What would happen if you didn’t keep an exact record of your expenses? How much exactly are you saving and what did you give up to save it? What are you planning to do with your savings and how far are you from that “bigger” goal?

If you find yourself unable to answer these questions, you’ll be lacking motivation within a couple of days – no matter how good your intentions may be.

What you should do:
Keep track of your progress.

Review how far you are from your goal and answer the tough questions as needed. If there’s something else you should be doing to move forward, schedule it and do it.

On the other hand, keeping track of your progress will let you know if you’re moving closer to achieving what you want. When that happens, give yourself a well-deserved pat on the back.

Commit.

Wishes require imagination and excitement; goals require commitment.

Motivation and passion won’t always be at an all-time high; that’s why when you truly want something, you’ve got to commit.

Make a promise to yourself, a friend, or the universe: whatever it takes to hold yourself accountable and take responsibility for your own actions.

What you should do:
Find a balance.

There will inevitably be days when you just won’t have the energy or time to take that next step in your action plan. Talk yourself through the rough patches from a loving place, instead of thinking that you won’t be able to accomplish what you want and how much easier it would be to drop everything and stay in your comfort zone.

Remember that you’ve made a commitment and honor your word. Don’t let stress or fear get the best of you. Instead, if you’re feeling lousy, take a no-guilt break to recharge and carry on.

There are no big secrets or magic tricks when it comes to achieving your goals. There’s just a lot of hard work and planning involved. So don’t wait any longer and design a proper plan that allows you to take action.

You are perfectly capable of turning wishes into goals and goals into realities.